This old dead tree brings up a lot of warm feelings for me remembering back when it was alive and thriving in my over 40 years having lived here. I remember when it stood tall and noble with outstretched branches inviting the birds and squirrels to come while proudly shading the ground below. It was strong bracing the wind and storms for so many years giving life to all around it until it had no more to give.
I don’t know how old it was, possibly 150 years, as old as our state of Colorado this year. Think of what it witnessed in its lifetime – changes in the migration of wildlife, growth of the forest and fires in the balance of nature. Starting out as a baby itself, there was a lot to survive, and yet it did, no doubt, for many years. And there it stood, planted in one spot, doing what it was created to do – proudly and boldly be a tree.
I remember when our girls were young and we first had horses. There that old tree stood watching as we struggled to learn and communicate with these large animals, green in our efforts, and the many memories we made doing that. I could almost feel an approving energy and a smile happy to be a part of community and our home.
It watched over the years as our girls grew and all the coming and going of teenage life; and, then the grandkids, when they came with their rough play, dueling lightsabers, chasing each other around the yard playing hide-and-go-seek with the horses and dogs. Those were happy memories for us, and that old tree found its happy place too over the years, as we enjoyed it being there and the loving energy it gave off.
It was hard to see life fade in that old tree and how it still stood tall even after life ran its course and it was gone. There’s an empty space there, now, where it once stood but as you walk close you can still feel an energy of love and joy. If trees could communicate like us, I think that old tree would laugh and laugh at all the play, challenges, life and love that bounced around all over this backyard.
I love the thought of its life that once was and its energy that still remains and, with that, as long as we have our memories nothing is ever really gone – only the form has changed.
Pat from the ‘ol kitchen table
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This is the first of a new project my husband, Jim Ruppel, and I are collaborating on where, with his photography, he will pick a photo and send it to me to put a story to it. So, here goes. Hope you enjoy it and let me know your thoughts and suggestions, if you like. Thank you.
The United States will celebrate its birth of 250 years this year. That’s a lot of generations and we are all living bridges from one generation to another.
Generations come and go, like waves ebb and flow. Let’s hope my generation contributes things worthy of remembrance, like footprints in the sand, even if it’s for just a moment.
Even though this shared Facebook post below is AI generated, it speaks to something I never realized before and made me appreciate being old like I never did before. And, for that I thank you for these words.
We are often called “the elderly,” but that quiet label hides a truth most people rarely pause to consider we are the last living witnesses of a world that no longer exists.
If you look closely, you might notice gray hair, slower steps, or the quiet patience that time alone can teach. But if you truly listen to our stories, you will discover something far more extraordinary. We are not simply older people moving through the final chapters of life. We are the survivors of one of the most breathtaking transformations in human history — a generation that walked from the slow, deliberate rhythm of an analog world into the dazzling speed of a digital one without ever losing our sense of humanity along the way.
Our journey began in a very different place.
Many of us were born in the 1940s, 1950s, and early 1960s, when the scars of World War II were still fresh across Europe and Asia and the world was slowly learning how to hope again. Cities rose from rubble. Families rebuilt lives after years of uncertainty. Childhood unfolded in ways that would feel almost unrecognizable to younger generations today. Our toys were simple: marbles played in dusty yards, hopscotch drawn on cracked sidewalks, checkers and cards gathered around kitchen tables while the smell of dinner filled the house. When the streetlights flickered on in the evening, it was the universal signal that childhood adventures were over for the day, and it was time to go home.
There were no smartphones, no streaming videos, no endless scroll of digital distractions. Instead, we built our memories in the real world — with scraped knees, laughter echoing down neighborhood streets, and friendships that formed face to face, without the mediation of screens.
Music became one of the defining soundtracks of our youth. The 1960s and 1970s arrived like a wave of color and rebellion. We watched culture shift around us, carried by electric guitars and voices that dared to question the world. For many of us, gatherings like the legendary Woodstock Festival of 1969 symbolized something powerful: the belief that peace, music, and community could reshape the future. Hundreds of thousands of young people stood together in muddy fields, listening to artists who poured raw emotion into towering speakers known as the Wall of Sound. Those concerts were not merely entertainment; they were moments when strangers felt like a single generation singing the same hope under an open sky.
Education looked different then, too. Our notebooks were filled with handwritten notes carefully copied from chalkboards. Research required patience, long hours in libraries, and stacks of heavy books rather than a quick internet search. We learned to slow down and think through ideas because information did not arrive instantly. Mistakes were corrected with erasers and ink, not with the click of a delete button.
Love carried a different rhythm as well. We fell in love while vinyl records spun on turntables and cassette tapes clicked softly inside plastic players. Music became the background to first dances, long conversations, and dreams about the future. Those relationships grew into marriages, families, and lives built step by step through the 1980s and 1990s — decades that saw technology begin to reshape the world around us.
Yet nothing compares to the bridge our generation has crossed. We are the only generation to have experienced an entirely analog childhood and a fully digital adulthood. We remember waiting days — or sometimes weeks — for handwritten letters to arrive in the mail. We remember rotary telephones and party lines where neighbors could accidentally overhear conversations. Communication required patience and anticipation. Today, we can see the face of a loved one across the ocean instantly on a screen small enough to fit in a pocket.
The world changed in ways few could have imagined. We watched humanity land on the Moon in 1969, a moment when millions of people sat in living rooms staring at black-and-white televisions as Neil Armstrong took humanity’s first steps on another world. We saw the rise of personal computers, the birth of the internet, and eventually the arrival of smartphones that placed entire libraries of knowledge in our hands. Machines that once filled entire rooms now exist on devices lighter than a paperback book. We moved from punch cards and mechanical tools to artificial intelligence and global networks connecting billions of people instantly. And through every shift, we adapted.
Our bodies carry the marks of the times we lived through as well. We grew up during fears of polio and tuberculosis, illnesses that once terrified entire communities before vaccines helped bring them under control. We witnessed the global challenges of pandemics and health crises across decades, including the recent silence and uncertainty of COVID-19, which reminded the world that resilience is still required in every generation.
Science itself transformed before our eyes. We saw the discovery of the structure of DNA in 1953, the decoding of the human genome at the turn of the century, and the early steps into gene therapy and advanced medicine. Transportation evolved from simple bicycles and steam engines to hybrid vehicles and electric cars gliding almost silently through city streets.
Few generations have witnessed such sweeping change. And yet, despite everything that evolved around us, certain things remain unchanged. We still understand the joy of a cold glass bottle of lemonade on a hot afternoon. We still remember the taste of vegetables picked straight from a garden. We still know the value of a long conversation that unfolds slowly without a keyboard or screen interrupting it.
Our memories stretch across decades. We have celebrated births, mourned losses, watched friends depart, and carried their stories forward. Those of us who remain share something rare: the experience of standing at the crossroads of history, holding memories from a world that younger generations know only through photographs and stories.
But we are not relics. We are living bridges. Our perspective reminds the modern world that progress does not have to erase wisdom. The speed of technology does not have to replace patience, kindness, or reflection. We remember what life felt like before everything moved so fast — and that memory carries quiet lessons worth sharing.
So when someone calls us “elderly,” we can smile. Because behind that word lies something extraordinary. We are the generation that crossed two centuries, witnessed eight decades of transformation, and walked from the age of handwritten letters to the era of artificial intelligence.
What a life we have lived. What a remarkable story we continue to carry. And if you belong to this generation, take a moment today to look in the mirror and recognize something powerful. You are not simply growing older. You are living history. You are part of a generation that will always remain one of a kind. And perhaps, in the quietest and most meaningful way, you are becoming legendary.
(Taken from Informatify on Facebook – March 21 at 8:00 PM)
Not only my generation has been at the crossroads of history and bridged two centuries, but my parents and grandparents, as well. They saw airplanes appear in the sky, electricity light their houses, rode in motors for the first time instead of a live animal, and talked with someone miles away on a box. I can’t imagine all the monumental changes they felt and experienced too. Went through 2 World Wars, big band music of their generations and grew with the big changes our country was going through culturally.
Only 250 years old is what we will celebrate this year for our country, these United States of America, and so many have gone before us and contributed to this great nation we live in today. May we do her proud, as we look to the future, and be humble and grateful for living in these times, as tumultuous as they may seem. The Spirit that created this great country is still there, as we struggle to find the way and nurture it. And we’ll do our part to be living bridges.
“Change” – Gemini_Generated_Image by Pat Ruppel 12-21-25
I have an analogy for you to accept an extended invitation to a challenge for the New Year 2026. This being, to challenge yourself to change and the change is you. Here is the analogy:
You have a friend helping you push a heavy car up a hill, and you both know nothing about its mechanics. You can put a lot of manpower behind it and be successful getting it up there – one on one side and one on the other side. You can even discover there are better ways to get it up by pulling it from the top of the hill. And, as you get good at that and realize the success of it working for you, creativity kicks in.
You invent stronger ways to push and stronger ways to pull. You get excited! More creativity kicks in and you invent devices and tools, and you soon discover you can not only get the car up the hill, but you can even get it down the road. Wow! It’s looking good, and you keep going with the discoveries and inventions, and there’s no telling how far you can get cars up hills and down roads.
As it goes along, you use the same methods with the other things in your life and it all seems to fit together – working hard, streamlining and improving on pushing and pulling. But, over time, you begin to wonder if there could be a better way, but you don’t know you need to look.
Things start to wear out; cooperation and manpower is no longer there like it used to be. But you pursue and push onward, believing you’ve just got to work harder and push more. Over time, you’re realizing it’s just not working anymore like it used to. Something needs to change – you need help and another way.
Well, you can probably see where this is going. We can’t see another way if we don’t get out of our own way. That means being willing to see and try something different. How can you do that when you’ve had so much success and things have worked well for so long? But it’s like Victor Hugo said,
“There’s nothing more powerful than an idea, whose time has come.”
I accepted an invitation to a different challenge like this last year, December 2024, for 2025. I felt stuck, scared to get out of my comfort zone and things weren’t working as well as they used to. My challenge last year was to help me see things differently, identify the things holding me back, and journal about them in depth.
A challenge like this is not for everyone, nor is it supposed to be. It’s not another New Year’s resolution proposal. It’s private and about getting real looking within yourself; writing and reflecting asking for answers to things you need help with on an intimate level between you, your inner being and your source (God, Jesus, Spirit, Grandfather, Buddha, whatever you want to call it); because it’s yours and belongs to you. No judgements, exercises.
You make the rules, and you’re met right where you’re at. There’s no time limit and you can quit anytime. It’s up to you. It’s not a competition and no one is watching and grading your results, only you go how far or deep you want to take it.
Being honest with yourself and committing to taking responsibility in making new choices and feeling through what that is takes courage and a willingness to let go of how you used to do things to find a better, more efficient way. So, back to finishing the analogy:
Ah-ha! You find more information on cars, once you start looking for it, and you actually discover a manual. It talks about gas, ignition, steering, and there IS a new way.
So, let’s pop that gas tank, connect and fill it up, allowing those supernatural gases to flow into your being. Open that door and get in, sit down and turn on the ignition, feel that energy and life flow in. Test the brake, and gears, rev the gas pedal and hear the power. Vroom!!
Now, you’ve got it! You’ve included the life force in you that’s been there all along. So, let’s get this puppy up the hill and down the road and see where it takes you.
It couldn’t have been said any better than by Patanjali, an author of Yoga Sutras from India, many centuries ago:
“When you are inspired by some great purpose, some extraordinary project, all your thoughts break their bonds; Your mind transcends limitations, your consciousness expands in every direction, and you find yourself in a new, great and wonderful world. Dormant forces, faculties and talents become alive, and you discover yourself to be a greater person by far than you ever dreamed yourself to be.”
~ Patanjali
Hold on tight for the ride of your life, and be open and prepared, because it will take you places you have never been before. It makes it easier working together with the highest wisdom and knowledge that knows everything, and how all things work. It takes being brave to make a commitment to cooperate another way, instead of expecting others to cooperate with what you want. This is different. Instead of only looking outside for directions and guidance, you’re looking within, and it takes being quiet and listening with your heart with trust.
The world around us is changing rapidly and issues are coming down the pike. We’re going to need to make serious choices, and we need insight and wisdom beyond what has been used before on how to do that. So, if this speaks to you, there’s no better time than New Year’s 2026 to take the leap for a new, third way that includes helping everyone and everything; not self-serving, but caring for our planet, nature and one another with care and compassion like never before.
There’s a perfect poem by Rumi that explains it more in depth for me:
This being human is a guest house. Every morning a new arrival.
A joy, a depression, a meanness, some momentary awareness comes as an unexpected visitor.
Welcome and attend them all: Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows, who violently sweep your house empty of its furniture, still, treat each guest honorably. He may be clearing you out for some new delight.
~~ Rumi
God bless all of you this beautiful Christmas season and the upcoming New Year 2026.
Here we are at the beginning of another New Year. I wish you love and peace around the world. May we be kind to one another and the offer of hope far and wide.
God bless you.
Here is Kenny G – Auld Lang Sune (Millennium Mix 2010)
It’s been a good 2023 year for us rambling around in our Colorado mountains. Not much to write about and that’s good compared to all of what’s reported these days. Life is simple in our golden years and the highlights are walking with our dog and watching the birds.
I love these casual days and each one is different as they unfold. I couldn’t be more blessed and wish the same for all of you as this old year fades and a new one appears on the horizon. May your dreams be happy and your promises fulfilled.