Abby

Abby with her ball – photo © by Jim Ruppel

Abby was fierce and relentless when it came to her ball, and she kept it within sight at all times. If she saw it out in the yard, she would run full tilt until she almost got to it, then she would pounce on it like she had just caught something that was alive. She was strong and athletic, and entertained us for many hours. I don’t know that I’ve ever seen a dog run so hard that she would tire other dogs out when she played with them. It was like she ran circles around them until they finally had to lay down and rest with their tongues hanging out.  

When she was younger, that’s the way she played – everything was full blast – head on. We never had a dog this energetic. Even when there was no one to play with, and she was outside, she would stand at the top of our backyard, drop her ball or nudge it with her nose and watch it run down the hill, then chase after it. Our neighbor said she watched her do that over and over again for a long time.

Abby and ball in snow – photo © by Jim Ruppel

I remember when we first got her from the Intermountain Humane Center close tus and brought her home. She was around 6 months old and had been a stray with her sister roaming the streets in southern Colorado anhad probably never seen the inside of a house before. The first thing she did was take off running, which was somewhat difficult as there’s not a lot of room inside to do that. So, she jumped over the back of the couch and found a way to keep going as we stood watching with our mouths openWe had never seen a dog do this before, and when we turned the television onit freaked her out even more, and she got vocal. It was all so different, and it scared her.

Things settled down quickly after that, and she adjusted to usher big backyard in the mountains and new home. Her personality came through, and we had fun and loved her more each day. But, unlike the other dogs we’d had in the past, we never got a companion for her. Maybe instinctively, we knew she would be our last dog. It was a different stage in our lives and, with one of us retired, she’d have someone home all the time. It wasn’t long that both of us were retired and home with her. Talk about being doted on and spoiled.  

Abby on old doghouse – photo © by Jim Ruppel

Her personality was sweet and she mellowed as time passed and became real gentle and loved people. There was not a child that couldn’t reach out to pet her that she wouldn’t give them a lick. When our youngest grandson was a toddler, he was afraid of larger dogs and when he first came to visit, she came close to him at eye level and he began to shake. She seemed to understand his fear and calmly stood beside him so he could reach out and pet her when he was comfortable.

She did that for a while as that weekend wore on and by the end, when it was time for him to go home, they would walk together side-by-side with our grandson’s hand on her back. He was no longer shaking. And all the other weekends when he would come up to stay after that, he played with her as any child would play with a large dog and never seemed to be scared again 

 I’m guessing there are a lot of dog owners out there reading this and not only dogs but other pets as well, where you feel that deep, unwavering connection. It’s different than human love, with passion and butterflies. This is unspoken with feeling that is communicated and exchanged other than by words or actions. You don’t even have to be in the same room or see each other to feel the energy of love that connects both of you, and it never wavers.

Abby comfortable in her spot on the couch

Abby on couch – photo © by Jim Ruppel

After almost 15 years on March 18th of this year, Abby left us peacefully and it was hard to say goodbye. But, in my heart, I still feel her energy is with us. How could she totally leave such a dog-perfect place, where she can run freely, lay in the grass, chase squirrels, smell the mountain air, play, eat good food and be loved. Ahhh, that’s got to be heaven on earth, and she was close to it.  

Yes, wherever she is on the other side, I feel her presence when we talk about her and mention her name. She hears us and comes running to be as close as she can. We miss her and understand it’s a shift for us, as well, having had dogs together for almost 60 years. My husband has always had a dog in his home as long as he’s been alive, some 81 years, and this change is truly what you call an empty nest not just with children. We feel it differently than when our other animals passed as there’s not their companion left behind and it’s an adjustment.  

But that’s the beauty of life when these animals and people come in and out, and we move forward having had the joy and love they’ve given us. I love them and it’s all good, the easy and the hard, and makes me feel a depth in my heart that I would never have felt otherwise without it.

Thank you, Abby, on the other side. Someday, you’ll hear them call our name and come running to greet us, along with all the other critters we’ve had – dogs, cats, horses. Boy, won’t that be a gathering. 

 Pat from the ‘ol kitchen table

This Old Tree

Old Dead Tree - © Jim Ruppel
Old Dead Tree – © Jim Ruppel 

This old dead tree brings up a lot of warm feelings for me remembering back when it was alive and thriving in my over 40 years having lived here. I remember when it stood tall and noble with outstretched branches inviting the birds and squirrels to come while proudly shading the ground below. It was strong bracing the wind and storms for so many years giving life to all around it until it had no more to give. 

I don’t know how old it was, possibly 150 years, as old as our state of Colorado this year. Think of what it witnessed in its lifetime – changes in the migration of wildlife, growth of the forest and fires in the balance of nature. Starting out as a baby itself, there was a lot to survive, and yet it did, no doubt, for many years. And there it stood, planted in one spot, doing what it was created to do – proudly and boldly be a tree. 

I remember when our girls were young and we first had horses. There that old tree stood watching as we struggled to learn and communicate with these large animals, green in our efforts, and the many memories we made doing that. I could almost feel an approving energy and a smile happy to be a part of community and our home. 

It watched over the years as our girls grew and all the coming and going of teenage life; and, then the grandkids, when they came with their rough play, dueling lightsabers, chasing each other around the yard playing hide-and-go-seek with the horses and dogs. Those were happy memories for us, and that old tree found its happy place too over the years, as we enjoyed it being there and the loving energy it gave off. 

It was hard to see life fade in that old tree and how it still stood tall even after life ran its course and it was gone. There’s an empty space there, now, where it once stood but as you walk close you can still feel an energy of love and joy. If trees could communicate like us, I think that old tree would laugh and laugh at all the play, challenges, life and love that bounced around all over this backyard.  

I love the thought of its life that once was and its energy that still remains and, with that, as long as we have our memories nothing is ever really gone – only the form has changed. 

Pat from the ‘ol kitchen table 

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This is the first of a new project my husband, Jim Ruppel, and I are collaborating on where, with his photography, he will pick a photo and send it to me to put a story to it. So, here goes.  Hope you enjoy it and let me know your thoughts and suggestions, if you like. Thank you. 

 

 

Living Bridges

Woodstock Festival of 1969

The United States will celebrate its birth of 250 years this year. That’s a lot of generations and we are all living bridges from one generation to another.

Generations come and go, like waves ebb and flow. Let’s hope my generation contributes things worthy of remembrance, like footprints in the sand, even if it’s for just a moment.

Even though this shared Facebook post below is AI generated, it speaks to something I never realized before and made me appreciate being old like I never did before. And, for that I thank you for these words.

Not only my generation has been at the crossroads of history and bridged two centuries, but my parents and grandparents, as well. They saw airplanes appear in the sky, electricity light their houses, rode in motors for the first time instead of a live animal, and talked with someone miles away on a box. I can’t imagine all the monumental changes they felt and experienced too. Went through 2 World Wars, big band music of their generations and grew with the big changes our country was going through culturally.

Only 250 years old is what we will celebrate this year for our country, these United States of America, and so many have gone before us and contributed to this great nation we live in today. May we do her proud, as we look to the future, and be humble and grateful for living in these times, as tumultuous as they may seem. The Spirit that created this great country is still there, as we struggle to find the way and nurture it. And we’ll do our part to be living bridges.

Pat from the ‘ol kitchen table

CHANGE – ARE YOU READY?

Change
“Change” – Gemini_Generated_Image by Pat Ruppel 12-21-25

I have an analogy for you to accept an extended invitation to a challenge for the New Year 2026. This being, to challenge yourself to change and the change is you. Here is the analogy: 

You have a friend helping you push a heavy car up a hill, and you both know nothing about its mechanics. You can put a lot of manpower behind it and be successful getting it up there – one on one side and one on the other side. You can even discover there are better ways to get it up by pulling it from the top of the hill.  And, as you get good at that and realize the success of it working for you, creativity kicks in. 

You invent stronger ways to push and stronger ways to pull. You get excited!  More creativity kicks in and you invent devices and tools, and you soon discover you can not only get the car up the hill, but you can even get it down the road. Wow! It’s looking good, and you keep going with the discoveries and inventions, and there’s no telling how far you can get cars up hills and down roads.

As it goes along, you use the same methods with the other things in your life and it all seems to fit together – working hard, streamlining and improving on pushing and pulling. But, over time, you begin to wonder if there could be a better way, but you don’t know you need to look.  

Things start to wear out; cooperation and manpower is no longer there like it used to be. But you pursue and push onward, believing you’ve just got to work harder and push more. Over time, you’re realizing it’s just not working anymore like it used to. Something needs to change – you need help and another way.   

Well, you can probably see where this is going. We can’t see another way if we don’t get out of our own way. That means being willing to see and try something different.  How can you do that when you’ve had so much success and things have worked well for so long?  But it’s like Victor Hugo said,

There’s nothing more powerful than an idea, whose time has come.”

I accepted an invitation to a different challenge like this last year, December 2024, for 2025.  I felt stuck, scared to get out of my comfort zone and things weren’t working as well as they used to.  My challenge last year was to help me see things differently, identify the things holding me back, and journal about them in depth. 

A challenge like this is not for everyone, nor is it supposed to be.  It’s not another New Year’s resolution proposal. It’s private and about getting real looking within yourself; writing and reflecting asking for answers to things you need help with on an intimate level between you, your inner being and your source (God, Jesus, Spirit, Grandfather, Buddha, whatever you want to call it); because it’s yours and belongs to you. No judgements, exercises. 

You make the rules, and you’re met right where you’re at. There’s no time limit and you can quit anytime. It’s up to you. It’s not a competition and no one is watching and grading your results, only you go how far or deep you want to take it. 

Being honest with yourself and committing to taking responsibility in making new choices and feeling through what that is takes courage and a willingness to let go of how you used to do things to find a better, more efficient way. So, back to finishing the analogy: 

Ah-ha! You find more information on cars, once you start looking for it, and you actually discover a manual. It talks about gas, ignition, steering, and there IS a new way.

So, let’s pop that gas tank, connect and fill it up, allowing those supernatural gases to flow into your being. Open that door and get in, sit down and turn on the ignition, feel that energy and life flow in. Test the brake, and gears, rev the gas pedal and hear the power. Vroom!!

Now, you’ve got it! You’ve included the life force in you that’s been there all along. So, let’s get this puppy up the hill and down the road and see where it takes you.

It couldn’t have been said any better than by Patanjali, an author of Yoga Sutras from India, many centuries ago: 

“When you are inspired by some great 
purpose, some extraordinary project, 
all your thoughts break their bonds; 
Your mind transcends limitations, 
your consciousness expands in every direction, 
and you find yourself in a new, great 
and wonderful world. 
Dormant forces, faculties and talents 
become alive, and you discover yourself 
to be a greater person by far 
than you ever dreamed 
yourself to be.” 

~ Patanjali

Hold on tight for the ride of your life, and be open and prepared, because it will take you places you have never been before. It makes it easier working together with the highest wisdom and knowledge that knows everything, and how all things work. It takes being brave to make a commitment to cooperate another way, instead of expecting others to cooperate with what you want. This is different. Instead of only looking outside for directions and guidance, you’re looking within, and it takes being quiet and listening with your heart with trust.

The world around us is changing rapidly and issues are coming down the pike. We’re going to need to make serious choices, and we need insight and wisdom beyond what has been used before on how to do that. So, if this speaks to you, there’s no better time than New Year’s 2026 to take the leap for a new, third way that includes helping everyone and everything; not self-serving, but caring for our planet, nature and one another with care and compassion like never before.

There’s a perfect poem by Rumi that explains it more in depth for me: 

This being human is a guest
house. Every morning 
a new arrival. 
 
A joy, a depression, a meanness, 
some momentary awareness comes 
as an unexpected visitor. 
 
Welcome and attend them all: 
Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows, 
who violently sweep your house 
empty of its furniture, still, 
treat each guest honorably. 
He may be clearing you out 
for some new delight.

~~ Rumi 

God bless all of you this beautiful Christmas season and the upcoming New Year 2026. 

Pat from the ‘ol kitchen table 

A New Year 2025

Dove

Here we are at the beginning of another New Year. I wish you love and peace around the world. May we be kind to one another and the offer of hope far and wide.

God bless you.

Here is Kenny G – Auld Lang Sune (Millennium Mix 2010)

Pat at the ‘ol Kitchen Table